Speed networking

I am familiar with the concept of speed dating, even though I have not participated in the ritual. The event involves people pairing off with a limited interaction time before switching to the next partner. It's a numbers game, and on the surface, it seems like it would be an efficient way to meet potential mates. Some may argue that the setup is superficial and contrived, removing the spontaneity and natural order of a typical dating scene.

It appears that networking events have borrowed the concept for speed networking events. When I first heard the suggestion, I bristled at the idea. Speed dating except for networking? I dismissed it without consideration.

At a network event last month, I observed the importance of working the room. Throughout the evening, I only talked to a handful of people, even though the room had close to 100. It's a skill, and I recognize that I can improve it. Perhaps the idea of speed networking makes sense after all. What better way to meet more people than through a construct of forced interaction where everyone chooses to participate?

I have learned to notice my thoughts and reactions. When I notice resistance, that's a growth opportunity. So, I'm taking the leap this evening with an open mind.